Save My Marriage

Breaking up with your partner is always very upsetting and can upset others who have an interest in your relationship.
It may be a minor link such as in an early relationship where your friends have become used to you being with your partner.
It can be more severe if you have had a liaison, which has created family.
Wherever you are in a relationship it is invariably awkward and demanding.
What is the easiest way to resolve a break-up - well basically don't let a situation get too difficult and work out your differences before yours and your partner's pride becomes too damaged.
They say that pride comes before a fall. Well in most break ups pride has more often than not taken priority over logic and then becomes embedded to such an extent that neither partner is set to give in.
If you reflect back to the first days you met, then you were so impressed with your partner that you would have done anything. In fact you probably thought that you were so lucky that they decided to even look at you, never mind go out with you.
So what happened?
Well the chances are that you started to take each other for granted and that is when the rot started to set in.
You probably ignored the little things that troubled you initially. Then you got angry, but kept restrained. Then you said something crossly and of course your partner was bowled over and defensive.
You are now starting down the slippery slope and each one of you has become defensive and pride sets in.
One thing leads to another and before long you cannot stand the glimpse of one another and the arguments become more and more recurrent and heated.
It is a little like taking a wrong turn on a journey in your car. The rational thing to do is to turn round and get back on track, but you make your mind up that there is doubtless another road than the one you initially chose and given that you are going in the right route, then you may well come across a link up back to your first route or even finish up at your destination through an entirely different route than you first chose.
But most roads do not link back and in matrimony there are no satellite routing systems. So the sensible thing is to keep on your initial direction and even then you want to adjust the wheel to keep from going off the road.
If you feel your association is breaking up and you do not want it to, then you may desire to take the advise of a counsellor.
Well before you do there is probably an easier solution and a great deal cheaper and may well probably be quicker and simpler.


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